Hostel Life : A Life time Experience



If someone asks me to define Hostel life (boarding house) I would definitely say a life time experience and a kind of teacher whose lectures you won't be going to forget. It is a place where you will learn everything, How to live in the society, how to manage things, matching expenses with pocket money by the way this happen very rear, especially how to survive in a place.

 People says “Time is good teacher, its teaches everything”. Surely it is but I won't be wrong if I say “Hostel (Boarding House) is a great teacher which teaches everything before time :-p ”.

Specialty of hostel is: living between people who are unknown to you before hostel life and after hostel life it feels like they are with you from your childhood. Hostel is the first place where everyone learns for the very first time that how to live among the people of different classes having different family background, how to adjust your mind with them. One of the great things about hostel is its sharing culture. And if didn't adopt its culture then you’ll definitely have a small circle of friends may be a few.
   Some fun time at hostel...(NSDC Hostel)
   
One specialty of it is how to tolerate a person and increases a man tolerance level. How to tease a person especially is a great feature of hostel life.

From the very start I am only praising hostel life and pretending to show that it is like a heaven but as you all every picture has two sides. The good and bad. But it is natural phenomena, everything has merits and demerits. We can improve the bad side but can't remove the bad side. So far I was writing about good aspects, the fun. Now starting the bad aspects, the dark side! The reasons of why parents are not willingly send their children's to boarding house.

In a society, reputation is everything. It is one the qualities of our world that the bad thing become popular far more quick than the good thing. It is like a wildfire. So the people are aware of bad effects of almost everything but a little aware of good side. Same is the case with hostels. Parents are aware of facts of hostels bad lives but they are not aware of good things about hostel. They don't even know how overcome these bad things.

Causes of the bad habits in hostel are giving children free hand from parents side, not visiting him regularly and the most important I think are nurture and his nature. Nature is person structure and through Nurture it can be corrected and polished. One of the popular bad habits which connected with hostels is addiction of drugs. It can be avoided via correct nurturing right from childhood.

One day we were discussing hostel life so one friend said I'll never admit my children in a boarding school. To support of his statement he said they will be my blood and greater chances are there that they will be like me. So as what kind of life I spend in hostel may be they will be going to spend their life like me so that why.... In his talk he totally ignored nurture. I spotted it out at that time but he didn't agree with me, I don't know why. Children are like hot iron. They have the flexibility of bending everywhere. At that time if they have provided the correct atmosphere so the parents can avoid embarrassment in future.

Hostel! Everything has good and bad aspects. We should take good seriously and think about improvement of bad aspects.


Personally I feel hostel is a great place which helps in making a man character. This is what I felt about hostel life and I wrote it down.

If you read it and you have hostel life experience so not to forget to share it in comments box.

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john muller

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